Do you have too much debt? Understanding your debt and getting help

According to a 2023 Bankrate survey, most U.S. adults (52 percent) say that money has a negative impact on their mental health. Of those, 47 percent say debt is one of the leading causes of this negative impact.

Unfortunately for Americans, debt is so common that it can be easy to dismiss or see rapid debt accrual as a necessary part of life. This is evident in Americans’ 2023 spending habits; credit card debt saw a total balance increase of 17.4 percent, and total consumer debt grew by 4.4 percent compared to 2022’s 16.38 percent.

If you’re living paycheck-to-paycheck, with most of your earnings going toward debt, that could indicate having too much debt. While chipping away at those balances may feel overwhelming, know that with hard work, dedication and patience, you can become debt-free.

How to know if you have too much debt

One of the quickest ways to determine whether debt is becoming an issue is to calculate your debt-to-income ratio (DTI). Your DTI measures how much debt you have relative to your monthly gross income, expressed as a percentage.

You can calculate this manually by adding up all of your monthly debt payments in your credit report — auto loans, personal loans, student loans, credit cards and mortgages, among others — and dividing that amount by your monthly gross income.

Typically, lenders like to see a DTI under 36 percent. So, if your monthly gross income is $3,000, your monthly debt payments shouldn’t exceed $1,050.

Warning signs your debt could be a problem

Greg McBride, Bankrate chief financial analyst, says that one simple way of knowing if your debt is becoming a problem is if your total balances are going up every month instead of coming down.

For example, assuming you make a gross monthly income of $3,000, your credit cards, auto loan, and other non-mortgage debt payments shouldn’t exceed $450 a month when combined.

Other signs that may indicate a debt problem include:

• Not remembering how much you owe and to who off the top of your head.
• Borrowing money to make payments on other debts.
• Relying on credit cards to make everyday purchases.
• Making only the minimum payment due on your cards.
• Not having an emergency fund and are unable to establish one.
• Not being able to contribute to your retirement savings.

Good vs. bad debt

While there are many different kinds of debt, not all is necessarily bad for your overall financial health. Debt that can increase your net worth over time or that ends with a positive return can benefit your financial future. However, bad debt does exist, and it should be avoided whenever possible. For example, high-interest debt accrual — like credit cards, payday loans and high-interest personal loans — won’t benefit your wallet in the long run.

Good debt

Good debt increases your net worth over time or has lasting value. Examples of good types of debt include mortgages and student loans. Residential property or houses generally appreciate over time and are considered a good investment because if you sell, you may get back more than you put in.

Additionally, a college degree enables you to get a well-paying job and earn more money throughout your life. According to the U.S. Bureau of Labor Statistics, bachelor’s degree holders in the U.S. earn nearly 68 percent more weekly than those with a GED or high school diploma. However, this doesn’t apply to all career fields, as certain positions yield higher starting salaries. Before assuming your loans are automatically a ‘good’ debt, consider your degree’s predicted return on investment (ROI) compared to your total student debt load.

Bad debt

Bad debt, on the other hand, doesn’t provide any type of value. It includes things you finance because you don’t have the cash to pay for them. Unlike good debt, it doesn’t add to your net worth or have lasting value. Bad debt includes credit cards (if carrying a balance), auto loans and payday loans. It’s considered “bad” debt because, typically, these balances carry no benefit but come with high fees and rates. If you don’t pay them down quickly (or within the allotted repayment period), you could end up in a vicious debt cycle.

Why does high debt matter?

Having too much debt, particularly bad debt, suggests that you may be living beyond your means. This can make you seem like a riskier borrower in the eyes of lenders, as this makes you more likely to default than someone with a lower debt load.

“Too much debt, and the wrong kind of debt, will stand in the way of making financial progress,” McBride says.

“You won’t be saving for retirement or emergencies to the extent you should. Your credit rating will suffer if you’re increasingly indebted, limiting your ability to get better interest rates, impacting your auto insurance premiums, ability to rent an apartment, or even to get certain jobs.”

The more debt you have — particularly bad debt — the more likely you are to fall victim to the vicious debt cycle, in which you need to take out more high-interest debt to repay your existing debts. Over time, this pattern of borrowing eventually spirals, impacting your credit and long-term financial health. Plus, more debt means that your DTI ratio is high, making it harder to get approved for loans or similar products in the future.

What to do if you have too much debt

If your debt is affecting your day-to-day life, consider the following options. Remember that debt relief shouldn’t be a one-size-fits-all approach, so be patient and try out different methods. Paying down your debt also takes time, so give the following methods time before throwing in the towel.

• DIY approach

  The DIY approach can be a good option if your main concern is credit card debt. Only those with an established budget and the ability to maintain the repayment plans through the end of their loan balance should pursue this route. Missing just a few payments could derail your progress as interest will continue to accrue.There are two main repayment options to approach when tackling your debt on your own: the snowball and the avalanche methods.The snowball payoff strategy consists of making a list of all your debts and paying them in ascending order. In other words, you will first concentrate on paying the one with the smallest balance — regardless of its interest rate — and move up from there.On the other hand, the avalanche payoff strategy focuses on paying off the account with the highest interest rate first — regardless of its balance — to save more money down the line. With both methods, you’ll focus on paying down one debt at a time but will continue making the minimum payments on the remainder of the debts.Although both will require a budget recalibration on your end to make it work, the snowball strategy is better suited for those who need a psychological push and have multiple accounts with similar rates. Conversely, the avalanche strategy may be better for those with debts with significantly higher rates than other accounts who want to prevent further interest accrual.Who it’s best for: Borrowers that have a strong budget and spending habits to continue the repayment method until the debt is cleared.

• Credit counseling

  If the DIY approach isn’t for you or if you’re juggling an overwhelming amount of debt, credit counseling is another low-cost alternative you can explore. You can get these services through non-profit organizations, banks, credit unions and some churches. In some cases, these entities may even offer these services for free.“If you need help budgeting and managing your debts, contact a non-profit credit counseling agency. They have trained counselors that can help map out a budget, get on a debt repayment plan, and even negotiate with creditors,” McBride says.There are counseling services for several types of reasons, including (but not limited to):

  • General budgeting
  • General debt repayment
  • Debt management plans
  • Bankruptcy
  • Student loans
  • Housing (mortgage or rent)

  Who it’s best for: Those unsure how to move forward with their debt repayment options

• Debt consolidation loan

  Debt consolidation loans are ideal for borrowers with a decent credit score but also larger amounts of higher-interest debt. A debt consolidation loan bundles multiple debts into a single account with a fixed repayment term and monthly payment. While this method can result in a more organized and streamlined repayment process, it only makes sense if you’re approved for a lower rate than what you had on your previous debts.Taking out a loan to get out of debt may seem counterproductive, as you’re moving debt from one place to another. You could be saving money in interest charges, especially if you have several thousand in credit card debt or other unsecured debts, such as high-interest personal loans. Plus, your interest rate will be protected against market fluctuations, as most debt consolidation loans are fixed-rate products.To qualify for a debt consolidation loan with a reasonable rate, you’ll need a credit score in the mid-600s or above, strong financials or a co-signer that meets these criteria.Like all repayment methods, you’ll need to address any negative financial behaviors — if applicable — to keep your future debt accrual down. Otherwise, you may end up in a worse position than before. If you can’t repay your consolidation loan, your credit score will take a heavy hit that could take years to recover.Who it’s best for: Borrowers with a good credit score (or qualifying co-signer) with large amounts of similar high-interest debt.

• Debt settlement program

  Depending on your debt’s total amount and type, you can enroll in a debt settlement program through a debt relief company. These companies exist to give borrowers some debt relief without immediately jumping to bankruptcy. When working with a relief company, it’s possible they may recommend settling your debt, consolidating your debts or filing for bankruptcy. They also act as a middle-man by communicating with your creditors for you.If your creditors agree to work with the relief company, you could have your debts settled for a lesser amount or forgiven altogether. However, these services come at a price, typically between 15 and 25 percent of your enrolled debts once settled.Most relief companies require that you stop making your payments while they negotiate with your creditors, which inevitably will cause a drop in your credit score.There’s also the possibility that the company won’t be able to settle all your debts, leaving you with a damaged credit score and the same debt load as when you started. Plus, you’ll be financially liable for any late fees your creditors assess. That makes working with debt settlement or relief companies inherently risky, so this method should be a last-resort option before bankruptcy. Also, steer clear of any company that requires you to pay an up-front fee. This is a large red flag and likely signals a scam. Debt relief companies can only charge you a fee based on the forgiven or settled loan amount, so you should never have to pay anything until you sign off on the forgiven or settled loan.Who it’s best for: Those who have exhausted all other debt relief methods and are considering bankruptcy.

The bottom line

Having too much bad debt will follow you for the rest of your life until you repay every cent back. In turn, this will impact your ability to get approved for other future loans and products, making it difficult to make any positive money moves. You’ll know you’re in an uncomfortable amount of debt if you cannot make your monthly payments on a regular basis without dipping into your savings or emergency fund.

While too much debt can be overwhelming and may feel like a life sentence, you have repayment and relief options. However, each repayment method isn’t the best for every borrower, so practice patience and try out a few options until you find the best method for your current and future financial health.